2 Samuel 14:18-24

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Alternative devotions for Sunday 21st December

What was David to do?  If you have followed recent studies you will know that David was faced with a complex quandary concerning his son.  Absalom, a son who he clearly loved, had placed himself in line to the throne after his father by murdering his elder brother Amnon (2 Sam 13).  Absalom had gone into voluntary exile, but David would not accept him back in court as a punishment for his sins.  It sounds a reasonable response.  However, the situation was not good for Israel because with the heir to the throne exiled, others might try to destabilise David’s court in order to seek advantage, and Joab, David’s right hand man perceived the problem.  He sent a woman to David who told a tale to him which pointed out the salient details of the situation.  Despite the personal pain involved, unless reconciliation could be effected between the wayward son and the court, Israel’s future would become unstable.

No hiding!    After the woman had told her tale and began to explain to David the reason for her concern, David asked the woman without hesitation ‘is Joab involved in all this?’ (14:19), and she could not hide the truth in front of the king.  Her words in verses 19 and 20 appear to reflect both due respect for the king, and also a certain amount of fear at what he might do now her mission was exposed.  There is, in truth, a paradox in what she says, for the words ‘but my lord has wisdom like that of an angel of God and knows everything that is going on!’ (14:20), are likely to make us respond with a dry smile.  David was having difficulties and fell far short of the qualities she ascribed to him, and the David of old would have been mortified to have been likened to Almighty God like this, and least of all to be accredited with omniscience (knowing everything)!

David’s response   Nevertheless, the woman from Tekoa was highly vulnerable standing before the king in open court.  Would David accept her approach together with the strong implication of rebuke for the king?  Would David accept the clear implication that he should make peace with his eldest son and not abandon him in exile?  How would David respond to the fact that Joab was involved in the woman’s approach and was obviously trying to influence him?  If we imagine the scene, we must remember that as the army commander, Joab would have stood near to the king when he received public petitions.  He was, after all, responsible for public order; but it was he who had arranged for the woman to come to the king and challenge him.  Joab’s sole purpose had been to persuade the king to stop prevaricating and allow Absalom to return to Jerusalem, and thus bring to an end all the uncertainly about Israel’s royal succession.  This, in his view, would strengthen the monarchy and also his own position as army commander.  After a moment’s thought (perhaps), David turned to one side and addressed Joab, giving permission for the return of Absalom.  Joab therefore set out immediately for Geshur to do what he had probably wanted to do for some time, and bring Absalom back

David and Absalom   Despite David’s love for Absalom, he still decided to keep his son at a distance.  Perhaps David remained uncertain about the suitability of Absalom as an heir (he proved to be right, of course).  He permitted Absalom to live in Jerusalem with his immediate family circle (wife, family and children), but not attend court or come into the King’s presence.  David did not want to be associated with what Absalom had done, so Absalom had to live away from the centre of power and the heart of government.  It was a situation he would exploit to great effect (2 Sam 15).

As we read this story, there can be no doubt that the writer of scripture is asking us to consider whether David is really in full control of events.  Joab, the army commander, had covered for him in the matter of the murder of Uriah the Hittite, and sometimes had to ‘pull strings’ to get things done for Israel, and whilst he was doing this, David seemed to be preoccupied with his own feelings about his family.  We can learn from this that it is quite unrealistic to expect every man or woman of God to be perfect.  Like David, there will be times when their ministry or leadership is compromised, and the stories of David are there for us to learn from.  In this story, David showed that there are times when a leader needs to heed what others say and accept the advice of loyal servants.  Each leader needs to know who these loyal servants are, and when to use them.

18 Then the king said to the woman, ‘Do not conceal anything from me when I ask you.’ The woman said, ‘Let my lord the king speak.’ 19 The king said, ‘Is Joab involved with you in all this?’ The woman answered, ‘As you live, my lord the king, what you say can only be true, not false.  It was your servant Joab who instructed me; it was he who told me what to say.  20 He did this in order to change what was happening; but my lord has wisdom like that of an angel of God and knows everything that is going on!’

21 Then the king said to Joab, ‘Very well, I will do this.  Go and bring the young man Absalom back.’  22 Joab bowed down low in obeisance, and blessed the king, and then said, ‘I know that I have received your goodwill today, my lord the king, because You have granted the request of your servant.’

23 Then Joab set off to go to Geshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem.  24 The king said, ‘He must go to his own house; he is not to come into my presence.’ So Absalom went to his own house, and did not appear before the king.

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Rescue us, Lord Jesus Christ,

 by Your Holy Spirit, rescue us.

Restore our bodies through rest,

 and strengthen them with exercise;

Replenish our minds by the Word,

 and fill our hearts with Your truth;

Re-ignite Your fire of love in us,

 so that we may shine for You;

Recover our zeal to live the Faith,

 by challenging us to do Your will;

Replace the tiredness in our hearts,

 with the vigour of Your enthusiasm;

Recharge our souls through worship,

 so we may enjoy Your presence;

Renew us, Lord Jesus Christ,

 by Your Holy Spirit, renew us.

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We will pray this week that the message of Christmas will become clearer to the world as it is celebrated in millions of homes and churches. Pray for Christ to bring peace to our world.

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Go to the Discipleship page for suggestions about discipleship issues raised in the text, and questions useful for Bible study groups. There is also an additional prayer

Lord Jesus, in those difficult times when life feels numb and love seems far away, come gently, we pray.  Bring a word, a touch, a sense of Your presence; and place within us the seeds of hope and renewal.  Then, with every day that passes, may we increasingly know the transforming power of Your love deep within, and rejoice in Your graciousness and care.  Thank You Lord Jesus;   AMEN

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